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In which eHarmony contacts me

Lately I’ve been getting an incredible amount of junk mail to my main email account.  Now I have an email account for this blog ( but obviously I have an email that I have always had for years for real stuff.  I mean can you imagine me fillingin my email address for school and stuff with my All Fooked Up address?


Don’t answer, that was rhetorical.


So other than the normal bullshit I have been receiving missives from both and eHarmony lately.  For example, the other day I received this:



As you can imagine, I was terribly excited at the thought of getting a date 7/days a week.  Between that and hanging with my husband I’d be pretty damn busy right?  Well, this was about the billionth email I had received from them so I sent out the following Tweet:


I mean, it’s only natural to wonder right?  I was quite surprised when I received the following response from eHarmony later that day.


I was really impressed that they contacted me.  At any rate, Kevin was out of town so Daniel and I went out to eat (shockingly enough I didn’t feel like cooking) and I was telling Daniel about the eHarmony tweets when we had the following conversation:


Daniel:            So eHarmony keeps contacting you?

Me:                  Yeah, I think I can get them to stop now.

Daniel:            I wonder why you were getting them

Me:                  Maybe it was your father

Daniel:            What?

Me:                  Wouldn’t it be funny if your father signed me up for eHarmony?

Daniel:            Why would he do that?

Me:                  Maybe he’s going to dump me and he wants to make sure I can get a date first

Daniel:            (Laughing) yeah, maybe he’s being thoughtful like that

Now we’re both cracking up at the thought of Kevin getting me another match before he dumped me so I decided to ask him.  I related the conversation that I’d had with Daniel to him and here’s what Kevin said:

Kevin              Damn, there wasn’t supposed to be a way to trace it back to me

Me:                  So, you are dumping me?

Kevin:             Yeah, I am

Me:                  Well thanks for helping me out and being so thoughtful by getting me a date. 7 days a week no less!

Kevin:             I’m a nice guy like that.

So you see? Sometimes the mail that you think is junk is really a forewarning of your future.  Thanks eHarmony!!

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  1. Katja Brown
    September 5, 2011

    Isn’t that just lovely of your husband?

    In other, totally unrelated news: My mom homework advice just got outsourced. While I was reading your blog, my son asked me what eloquent means. I guess I did not give him the answer that matched his expectations because he trolled off and said: “I am just going to to my homework with dad.”

    • Lynn
      September 5, 2011

      hahaha…good job

  2. Lori
    September 5, 2011

    I actually met Himself on

    But we didn’t tell them that, because we didn’t to get contact about a promotion and then be told, upon seeing us in person, “Ummm…maybe you could write us a testimonial…”

    Things like that are bad for your ego.
    Lori recently posted..I’m ready for my close-up.My Profile

    • Lynn
      September 5, 2011

      i think those sites are great! I’m just not sure why they want me. In theory, i’m already married!

  3. Casey Freeland
    September 5, 2011

    For some reason the fact that the eHarmony tweet guy said “Ya” bugs me. Crazy, eh? So, good luck with the dating thing!



    • Lynn
      September 5, 2011

      i haven’t actually taken them up on their offer of matchmaking… why would i want more than the one husband i have? right?

  4. Alexandra
    September 5, 2011

    Who knew eharmony was based in Wi? The ya is the tip off.

    • Lynn
      September 6, 2011

      thats funny. I just don’t know why all of a sudden I’m getting so much crap from all these sites. To my main email too! It’s driving me nuts.

  5. natalie
    September 6, 2011

    um…i fucking love you…why am i just now finding your blog?!?!

    • Lynn
      September 6, 2011

      what an awesome comment! ummm…possibly due to the fact that i do a shit job promoting myself…that’s why. thanks for that compliment!!!

  6. By Word of Mouth Musings
    September 6, 2011

    They must figure you just have SO much love to go around :)

    • Lynn
      September 6, 2011

      either that or maybe i’m just a great catch!

  7. Paula @ thewilyweez
    September 11, 2011

    I can’t believe they tweeted back! How funny!
    Paula @ thewilyweez recently posted..F*ck You Fridays: Round TwoMy Profile

    • Lynn
      September 11, 2011

      I know…it was funny

  8. jewish women
    September 12, 2011

    LOL, I have to say the on the internet dating or electronic dating has come a very long way from the days of easy chat rooms. A lot more and more people are turning to on the internet dating sites to display likely dates.

    • Lynn
      September 12, 2011

      Oh…I don’t have a problem with Internet dating. It’s just that I’m married and I’m getting tons of emails from tons of sites all of a sudden

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